Thinking of you.

A little more sappy than I usually prefer, but I’ve been keeping a more private journal over the past few days to deal with what’s been a reasonably tough week. Optimism at my core, I found these two photos on my Facebook newsfeed this morning and thought they were too appropriate to not share.

Life doesn’t always go according to plan. You’ve just got to be strong enough to adapt and make it to where you want to be.

Unique question.

At dinner with some new friends tonight, I received a unique question.  Upon realizing that I have a completely ridiculous obsession with Apple products, a friend asked me – what’s on your home screens? How do you prioritize everything, what goes where? I thought that this would be a cool blog to write, because people do often ask me why do you need an iPhone, an iPad, AND a Mac? And how do you keep all of that organized?

Well, I own and use each because different devices do different things.  I’m really lucky and fortunate to be able to have all three, and having paid for each one after intentionally saving my money, I take care of each of them greatly. You’ll never see my iPhone without a case, same for my iPad, and whenever my laptop goes into my backpack, it goes into a case too. Double cases haha I use to have a clam shell case for my laptop but it made it heavier than such a light laptop should be.

Like most people, my computer is obviously for heavy word processing and long term internet browsing/usage.  My iPhone is for constant text (short) messaging, “phone calls,” and anything else I need access to virtually 24/7 like my to do list and calendar quickly. My iPad is primarily used for medium-time web surfing, taking notes, viewing articles, playing games, and watching movies – definitely more social things.

Here are my home screens for each device:

The desktop on my (October 2011) Mac Book Air 13 in. is a long-term to do list of projects or papers that I still need to work on. I try to keep it pretty empty. Don’t make fun of me – I do actually like for all of my backgrounds across devices to match.
My iPhone 4S’ home screen. Quick access to the camera, updating my blog, to do list, and facebook are most important obviously. The new notification center on the iPhone is extremely useful. Four most used icons are along the bottom row. The icons furthers to the right of the screen are used ore often, for quick access when using with one hand. 
My website, iTunes remote (controls my Apple TV. Yes. obsessed) and quick notes are on the second screen. As you can see, I’m an organized person and like my icons to be organized well.  
You can see a bigger focus on videos, games, and movies on the iPad 4. :)

All in all, there are certain uses for certain devices obviously. The best part, though, about owning all Apple products is that your content (photos, messages, calendar) can sync across all of them. If I make an edit to my calendar on my desktop, it’ll show up on my iPad. If I get an iMessage on my iPad, it shows up on my iPhone. The syncing provides you efficiency that you can’t really get when your’e constantly trying to make all of your devices talk to each other.

Consider this a serious endorsement for Apple. :)

WHAT a coincidence!

Some of the weirdest things happen when you least expect it! This afternoon I was just sitting around the house getting some work done, and I got this text message from a fellow Hokie.  We had actually served as officers in Alpha Kappa Delta last year, and had the same major obviously (sociology).

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So of course I was anxious to see the photo, and truly enough here it is!

I’m looking a little too skinny for my liking haha probably could have gone back for seconds a little more often than I did!

Thankful for fellowship.

After returning from Boston, I think that I was most excited to be able to substitute teach at the local schools. I have been a registered substitute teacher since the summer of 2011. Ever since, I haven’t been in Fredericksburg at the same time that public schools are in session. On Monday and Tuesday, I would be, so I decided to keep an eye out for the calling system to give me a ring and ask me to come in. Sunday night, while at dinner, I got a ring from the system and ended up logging in to accept a job substituting for all levels of high school math at Mountain View High School. I had never been to MVHS, so I was excited, as I learned that their school colors were maroon and orange. Nuff said.

This was the letter I left for Mrs. MacDougall. :) Always say thank you!

 

This was the lesson plan for one of the geometry classes.
I mean, calling me Mr. Graves really hasn’t stuck at any level. Whether I’m volunteering with first graders or if I’m substituting for high schoolers. haha
Had not heard terms like these in forEVER! p.s. a hall pass? Really? Go to the bathroom on your own time, kid.

I do have to say, though, I loved working with these children.  Seeing them understand the concepts that were simply eft for me to communicate from a lesson plan was nice.  I understand why people experience such job from being a teacher.  But, to allude to Nevitt Sanford‘s Challenge & Support Theory (one of my favorite student development theories of ALL time), the amount of support that you need to provide younger students is insane.  Which is ironic for me to feel, personally, beacuse I love the amount of suppor tthat you need to provide to little 7-year-old 1st graders. But for them, it’s expected. And they are striving to be independent simultaneously, and eager to learn more.

You can’t describe all teenagers, for the sake of their development, in the same way.  Some are working eagerly to move forward and some are perfectly happy being stagnant.  Working with those more challenging situations woul dbe hard for me, I’ll admit, if I was ever a high school teacher. At the university level, there is that innate sense of “I want to be here,” my most students. Not all, but most.  And I think that is what can help navigate many challenges in higher education administration.  So, essentially, this entire experience while unique and rewarding in tis own way, really helped cement the fact that I am in the right field. :)

After a fun and rewarding day of substituting, I headed home for some fellowship with some friends. This is Rachel’s “I can’t believe I believed you and just stuck my straw in this fire” face.
Then she decided to be nice and enjoy the rest of dinner. :)
Rachel and Sarah. “You know, I wonder if Hokies are the only ones who leave college just to come home and hang out with their college friends…”
Rachel’s, uh, ‘birthday shot.’
Kristin and I enjoying dinner. :) Oh, by the way, Fortune’s Gourtmet in downtown/Old Town Fredericksburg is home to the best Chinese food and drinks in Fredericksburg, IMO.
After dinner, the four of us headed to the home of an old best friend, Rachel. We’ve been close since the 7th grade. SO old. But so awesome at the same time. Was fun catching up. :)

Boston 2012

Last year, Kristin and I took a fantastic trip to Boston at the start of 2011’s Winter Break.  We had both been itching to travel somewhere and get outside of Blacksburg, being in our senior year and in the home stretch.  She’s a world traveler, and I’m certainly not, but I really did want a new experience, too.  We chose Boston because of a great deal on Jetsetter, a website that gives amazing discounts on all kinds of different travel accomodations.

Boston, in 2011, was one of the best trips or vacations I had ever taken.  Not only was a great trip with a great friend, but it was fantastic to explore a new city, mostly unplanned, asking locals for reccomendations, and hitting up all of the fun, typical, Boston things like the Freedom Trail, local bars, etc.  We realized that Boston was a relatively young city, and we were excited for the opportunity to get back in the future after spending only three days there.

Later that spring, during a late night study session at the Math Emporium preparing for final exams, we looked at the football schedule when Virginia Tech Athletics released it.  We realized that we would be playing Boston College in Chestnut Hill, just 10-20 minutes outside of Boston.  We immeadiately snatched up some $30 tickets for the game and decided that we would plan the rest of the trip come fall.

This fall, with the help of a good mutual friend of ours, Karen, we sat down and realized that JetBlue had some fantastic tickets on sale – only $70 one way for a flight from DC to Boston.  Last year, we decided to take a train from Fredericksburg to Boston but this time around we decided that since it was right at the beginning of Thanksgiving we should snatch up these deals, too.

So, we spent the weekend that began Thanksgiving Break in Boston and we really enjoyed ourselves! I told myself I would do a better job of taking pictures than I do in normal life (because by my standards, I am kind of bad at it) and I succeeded on the first day.  After that? Not so much.  But I still have quite a few that I wanted to post on here to document the memories.

This summer, I hope to be employed in Boston, Massachusetts. I love this city and Boston College’s campus was a great size, accessible, and was beautiful. I am going to research more about the university itself but it was a great trip.

When we arrived (after, myself, chugging through the night from 7 pm – 11 pm driving from Blacksburg to Fredericksburg, quickly doing some laundry, packing, and catching a flight that departed DC at 6:00 a.m.) we went to the hotel first to try and check in. Unfortunately our hotel room wasn’t ready 8 hours early. :-p We were staying at the Intercontinental Boston, due in part to a certificate I had gotten for a free second night of a 2 night weekend stay.

Approaching the hotel.

This hotel was right near the harbor, beautifully positioned relatively in the heart of Boston, convenient to public transportation, and a great choice due to the price vs. the amount of amenities that we got.

One of the very first things we did was return to our old stomping grounds…

Last year, we stayed at The Lenox Hotel, in Back Bay, and that was the Jetsetter deal that really ignited our planning for the trip.  On the way out of town, as our train was leaving at like oh dark thirty in the morning, we did a grab and go breakfast.  This time around, I treated Kristin to Breakfast at the Lenox instead, and we actually got to sit down and enjoy what was a fantastic breakfast. Didn’t think to take any pictures. Lame.

After that, we went to another place that we had been to the year before.  Anyone who knows me knows that I LOVE a good manicure.  I don’t care about your perceptions of manicures, and what they may be, but there are 2 things that are true. 1. pushing a wheelchair around all day eventually pushes your hands to the brink of horrible damage, and 2. there is some confidence to be had in hands that are presentable!

SO, I must endorse – if you are ever in Boston check out this place: Hollywood Nails. I link to the Yelp page because their web page is…not bearable.  This place, not even ADA accessible, is probably the site of one of the best manicures I’ve ever gotten, and definitely Kristin’s favorite french/gel manicure. Check it out.

Right next to The Lenox is a Lindt Truffle Chocolate Shop! At the Lenox, they give you a free truffle as part of the turn down service. Since we weren’t staying there, Kristin bought us a dozen instead. :)

 

As you can probably tell from the links so far, we used Yelp a TON. This is a feature called Monacle. Find it out for yourself – it’s fantastic. It’s on both iPhone and iPad Yelp apps.

 

 

 

The rest of these photos are in no particular order. :) 

 

The Boston Public Library
Charlie Card Store
Some of the food trucks outside of our hotel in the square. There was actually an entire application dedicated to street food in the area!

Gordon Chapel. Took this, in particular, for one of my classmates. :)
Another great iPad/iPhone app that we used to navigate the city.
A beautiful church near Back Bay in a square with a great Farmer’s Market. Beautiful.
If you can’t guess why I took this arbitrary map photo, then you are not a Hokie.

 

While wandering toward shopping just after our manicures, we ran into Karen who we were planning to meet up with later, but this was a total chance encounter!

Fun fact about Karen, we actually were boyfriend and girlfriend back in the sixth grade! After I moved away to Fredericksburg, we didn’t really keep in touch until we ended up living right down the hall from each other freshman year in a leadership living learning community on campus! Karen’s completing her fifth year in architecture while I complete my Master’s at Tech, so it’s been fun getting to spend more time together.

The ride on the T was a bit long out to Boston College so Kristin decided to take a break from standing, conveniently on my lap. :)
Thanks, KG, for this photo of BC’s Alumni Stadium. I’ll refrain from complaining about their lack of accessibility in this place.
Candid shot.
All rocking orange effect shirts from last year, designed by a mutual friend who we all also met in the leadership community freshman year!
I’m sorry, I just had an eye for Hokie colors while on the T.
<3
Apple’s new maps may be horribly inaccurate and misleading, but it’s detail is Boston is impressive. Kristin was getting acclimated.
Architecturally impressive fudiciary building.
One of my favorite places that we stopped was this little hole-in-the-wall market called Deluca’s. More about it later, but oddly enough, among their beautiful selection of Farmer’s Market-like goods and hard to find culinary items, they also had cotton growing right next to an ATM…
‘Nuff said. I didn’t buy anything cause um, well, just remind me to never NOT shop at an outlet until I have a real job. In other news, Kristin did get some awesome orange pants from H&M.

I treated Kristin to her first Georgetown Cupcake experience! They had JUST ran out of the secret flavor of the day so instead of getting 4 we got 2 haha

 

Deluca’s market was a foodie’s haven. After we left the nail shop, we stumbled around this place for a bit and shared dreams of shopping here if we ever moved to Boston.
Anyone that knows me well knows that this is the the EXACT brand of strawberry jam/preserves that I buy at the South Main Kroger. It’s expensive but so real and so delicious. I LOVE IT. AND they had like a million other flavors!
AND THIS SPICE RACK!? I know, such a weird thing to blog about, but come on. Seriously. Ah. mazing.
Eventually, Kristin decided on purchasing some pasta sauce that was near this aisle. So excited for dinner when she visits next weekend. :)
In return, I treated Kristin to a ridiculously filling buy enjoyable and romantic dinner at Maggiano’s Little Italy, which was on recommendation from my parents and Karen. Good recommendation if we do say so ourselves!

 

Boston’s South Station, where we arrived to and departed from our second successful trip in (currently) my favorite city.