Kristin, my wonderful girlfriend, has been recovering amazingly from a traumatic brain injury sustained back in November.  Over the past few months we have been able to reflect, together, on ways that her accident and ensuing recovery have helped us grow closer at times that neither of us ever imagined that it would be possible.  Even in silence we’ve both learned that there’s a certain (large) part of a connection that can be pressed and pressed until it’s really just a firm, solid connection.  A lot of the time those connections are born from shared experiences, shared challenges, and shared values.

Last night, Kristin shared a quote with me that I just had to share with all of you.  Over the past few weeks, we’ve had many-a conversation about ignoring a diagnosis, and working with your own agency to meet an end goal.  Ignoring what people expect may happen and make what you want to happen, happen.  That’s been the driving force behind my life.  It’s actually somewhat embarrassing how much energy and motivation I get from wanting to prove people wrong.  Now don’t get me wrong, most of my motivation comes from a love of helpig others, but there is that dark side of me that is constantly saying “Oh you think I can’t do this? Watch me.” It’s a bit elementary, yes, but I always tell people: take what ever gives you drive, put the keys in the ignition, and drive away.

The quote that KH shared with me is as follows:

In order to keep us awake to opportunity and to teach us equanimity, the universe throws us the occasional curve ball. Remember that curve balls are not only life’s way of keeping us awake, which is a gift in and of itself; they are also often life’s way of bringing us wonderful surprises. Next time a curve ball comes your way, take a deep breath, say thank you, and open your mind to a new opportunity.

Now, how amazing is that?

I have never felt a connection to someone that is feels so “right place, right time,” ever. To be as honest and transparent as possible, I feel like Kristin and I were placed in each other’s lives for more reason than one. For a while it was hard for me to see, but as time goes on, and we continue to learn from each other, push each other, and help each other grow, I’m surprised everyday by the insight, love, and connection we are able to share, even though I never expected it.

“Next time a curve ball comes your way, take a deep breath, say thank you, and open your mind to a new opportunity.” What a beautiful way to just, “Roll with the punches.”